The first trip to start my 40 countries in my 40s challenge

Tibet is a country I had wanted to visit for years, however as the years went by and I still hadn’t had the money or time to go, I realised I had to set it as a landmark trip in order to make sure I would go. So, it became my 40th birthday treat to myself and also marked my 40 countries in my 40s challenge in a big way. Tibet was everything I thought it would be and much much more and I certainly fell in love with it during the time I had there.    
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A reflection from Jokhang temple, Lhasa, Tibet

People bustling by, so close I can feel their breath against my cheeks and the sound of their prayer wheels whizzing round as they continue past me on their Kora around the Barkor circuit. I am struck by much more than simply needing to adjust to the altitude. The constant release of incense just in front of the Jokhang temple takes a while to take in for both my nose and eyes as I observe everything through the haze. Standing for a few minutes taking in the atmosphere, this is the moment I’ve been waiting for on my trip to Tibet. To stand with fellow Buddhists, join in with the daily Kora around the temple and to watch those prostrating in front of the temple offers me so much release and relief. Some have come for their daily worship whilst others are finishing their pilgrimage now months or years from their home and are still fully prostrating their bodies as they make their way around the temple on the final stretch.

The variety of people in this square is both eye-catching and humbling in the same moment. Monks go by old and young, Tibetans help fellow Buddhists make their way around the temple, traditional and modern outfits flash by and I catch a glimpse of them out of the corner of my eye as I focus my attention on the temple before me and try to find a place to start my own prostration. Prayer flags are wrapped around posts and nearby shops display them too subtly encouraging tourists to buy them. I can hear the strains of Tibetan music coming from the shops and my fellow travellers are telling me they are going to find a café to people watch and try to adjust to everything they are seeing, hearing and smelling. 

I can’t believe I’m actually here, all these years of being being a Buddhist and wanting to visit Tibet to see what it’s really like and here I stand in Lhasa, in Barkor square taking part in all acts of worship in front of the Jokhang temple. The Potala palace stands tall and proud behind me, a supporting backbone to my thoughts and emotional responses to all of this.

No-one notices others as they make their way around the temple, they seem to occupy their space no matter how many people deep they are in the circuit. Some start to join, others have finished and many are clearly doing more than the 3 circuits of the Kora. There is history here but there is also the sense of change with the Chinese flag always flying close by, traditional being mixed with modern as so many are chatting on their phones, wearing modern clothes rather than traditional dress. on people’s faces, no matter how many people are around, how much noise there is surrounding them, those doing the Kora look so focussed in their steps and peaceful in their faces. This is without doubt the most beautiful place in the world.  

 

Visiting Vaduz overnight

Liechtenstein has always been a country (principality) I’ve wanted to visit so when I knew I would be in Innsbruck, it seemed close enough to finally visit. I was told by a tourism officer in Prague that ‘Oh you can just drive through Liechtenstein in a day’. That was definitely not part of my plan as for me a drive thru is surely what you do at McDonalds or somewhere but certainly not a country.    
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In awe of Vienna

Before going to Vienna, I was ready to hit the museums and especially go visit Gustav’s Klimt ‘The Kiss’ at Belvedere. There were many more artists and museums which appealed, however when I arrived in vienna, that objective soon changed. After Budapest, I didn’t think there could be anywhere else that could beat its architecture. Just a few hours in Vienna soon changed that belief and I found myself happy to walk the streets most days taking in the buildings, the size of the centre and the atmosphere around. There were many times I even forgot to take photos as that would have distracted my attention to the detail of the architecture around me. 
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Walking the Danube again in Budapest

Budapest is just over 2 hours by train away from Bratislava and is less than €15 so worth a visit for a day if you happen to be in Bratislava or vice versa if you want to nip up to Bratislava. The Danube which I enjoyed walking along in Bratislava also runs through Hungary and provides an opportunity for a relaxing stroll or a cruise during the day or evening. It splits Buda and Pest and is present in all the panoramic views you can get.   Continue reading “Walking the Danube again in Budapest”

Lunch in the bomb shelter and more in Bratislava

Bratislava, the capital of Slovakia is 4 hours by train from Prague and the journey takes you through the south of the Czech Republic before arriving at the first stop across the border in Slovakia. I had a 5 night stay in Bratislava which allowed me to take my time seeing the sights and to relax in the capital rather than rushing which is what I wanted. If you only have a long weekend, then it is certainly enough time to see Bratislava.    Continue reading “Lunch in the bomb shelter and more in Bratislava”

My travel challenge so far in my 40s

My travel challenge is now in its 5th year which will come to an end the day before my birthday, April 22nd and start again on April 23rd for its 6th year. Since starting this blog and talking to more people about the positive challenge i set myself as I entered my 40s, the main questions I get asked are ‘how many countries have you been to so far?’ and also ‘how are you counting the countries?’ So let’s catch up on those years already passed by.    Continue reading “My travel challenge so far in my 40s”

Admiring Prague

Prague has been on my bucket list for as long as I can remember and one of those cities I kept saying I’ll go someday, I’ll go soon which turned into I’m going! I chose to stay for 7 nights so that I could take my time and also visit another Czech city if I wanted to. As it turned out, 7 nights were all spent in Prague and giving myself the extra time allowed me to see Prague in all its glory. It is of course possible to visit Prague over a long weekend if you don’t have much time. 
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My travel essentials

When we travel, we all have our set items which need to accompany us in addition to the usual items of clothing and toiletries. I recently wrote a post on Beingthebestyoucanbeblog.wordpress.com and travelalphabetabc.wordpress.com about my travel essentials and as I’ve started another trip for a month, it seems a good time to review that list and maybe add a few more items I’ve since realised I like to have.  Continue reading “My travel essentials”

The Journey Begins: 40 countries in my 40s. Welcome to my new blog

Thanks for joining me!

Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton

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When I turned 40, 4 close to 5 years ago now, I was so excited to leave my 30s behind. They had been a decade of grief and loss, love and the end of relationships but also near the end of my 30s, there was some joy when my travel plans came about and I started to look forward. I decided to challenge myself for my 40s and after some thought, the challenge became the idea of visiting 40 countries during my 40s and I had a special trip to start in style. 

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